One of the biggest misconceptions parents have is this: "My teen doesn't want to talk to me." Maybe they answer every question with "Fine." Maybe they disappear into their room. Maybe they're glued to their phone or wearing headphones every chance they get. It can feel like they're pushing you away. But in my years of coaching parents and teens, I've learned something surprising: Most teens still want a relationship with their parents. They just don't always know how to start the conversation...

When do you give in to them throwing in the towel, and when do you push them to keep holding it for a little longer?

You’re a perfect parent. I constantly wrestle with the weight of this statement. Because the truth is, while I am aware it is meant to be a flattering compliment, that label makes me deeply uncomfortable. Sometimes it makes me feel like a lung cancer oncologist sneaking out for a smoke break. Like of all people, I should have this figured out. I know the research. I teach the skills. I support families every day. But knowing how to parent and rising to the occasion every single time are two...